Our New (Old) Horses

Just thought you all might enjoy seeing what the two new (old) horses look like.  Wall and Wildfire are still my favorites, but that's probably because they're the ones that I'm most familiar with and have worked with the longest.  I haven't quite gotten a conversation and understanding going with the two new ones.  Big black Joe seems to be catching on faster than old Jed. 

Well, this is Joe, hanging out with his new buddies. 

 

Joe is a 20 year old solid black paint.  He is real smart.  Unless you first prove to him that loping is easier than whining and bucking, you might have an interesting ride!  My brother rode him with me the other evening and Joe behaved beautifully.  He neck reigns well, has a big stride, and is interested in going someplace new.  He has a mischievous side.  The other evening, when I checked on the horses, the float on the water tub was nocked off, cracked, and spraying water everywhere.  Joe splashed his foot in the puddle that was forming and looked at me with pricked ears.  I'm pretty sure I know who did it.   JOE!!!!!!

 

Jedda, whose names I've shortened to Jed because the name Jedda sounds female and makes me call him a she, is a 28 year old quarter horse gelding.  Besides some arthritis in his back legs, he is sound and spunky.  Jed is the boss and he and Wally continue to argue over who gets to be with Wildfire--the only mare in my little herd.  Jed is content to be ridden at a slow easy pace and when asked to trot, breaks into a real quick bouncy gait that turns into a lope if trying to keep up with the horse in front or if headed in the direction of home.  It's taking a while, but I'm learning to like this horse.  I haven't completely figured out how to make him interested in me yet, but I'm beginning to see some subtle changes.  Most of the problem is I haven't spent as much time with him yet.

 

I just had to add this last picture of Wildfire.  She was scratching her but on the fence and her expression was so funny!  She is quite the little pony!  Wildfire gets along well with my little sister who likes to braid this pony's long main.  Wildfire stands still with her eyes half closed as my sister braids.

 

After I had took this picture, she quickly exited the scene; it was as though she thought a picture like this was not appropriate!

 

 

Ok, I guess this one is the last photo for the day.  This one doesn't go with my horse post, but hey, maybe I'll make him into a calf to be roped some day.  Either that or my brothers and I joke we'll make him into a buck'n bull! 

 

 

This is T Bone.

Doesn't he look adorable and delicious?  Ok, sorry.  I didn't mean that, yet!  Maybe rodeo potential?  In our dreams!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life is Hard. God is Good

     Life is hard.  Sometimes things happen that are beyond our control.  How do we respond?  Death and change are difficult.  We are suddenly hurled into something we don’t want to think about right now and forced into decisions we would rather not make.  Some of us may vent our feelings or appreciate a shoulder to cry on.  Then there are some of us who would much rather like to be alone or wish we could just run away from it all—stick our head in a hole or move to Montana.  I’m learning that running isn’t always the best option and sometimes confiding in a person I trust can be good—even when it seems to be going against my nature. 

     A walk through a dew laden pasture on a quiet misty morning pursuing an exuberant pony caused me to stop and think.  As I pondered and fumed over my predicament with halter in hand and horses about a quarter mile away, I began to think how much better it would be if they would just stay and wait for me.  It just created more problems for them and me when they ran away.  Once again, the horses appeared through the early morning fog, and God seemed to be using the “innocent” face of that pony staring warily at me to point at my own life.  “You know you can’t really run away, just like the pony can’t because of the fence around this pasture.  You want to be free and run away from what you think are problems, when really they are my tools to make you into who I want you to be.  It will just create more problems for you and those around you if you try to run away.”  I sighed with relief and smiled with satisfaction as the pony approached me, licking and chewing.  The pony stepped lightly after me as we now walked together towards home.

     As I write this, I am reminded of Psalm 46:10, “Be still, and know that I am God…”  Leaving is not always the solution to our problems, unless it’s at the direction of God.  If we trust in the Lord, He will give us the courage, strength, patience, endurance, and peace to face the challenges of life and make us more like Christ.  Life is hard, but God is good.

In the Yoke with Jesus

Matthew 11:28-30

  “28 Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.  30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

 


As I was listening to someone sing verses 29 and 30, I really began to think about what those words were saying.  I wanted to know something.  How could a yoke that is normally bulky and heavy and used to pull burdens be comfortable?  How could a burden which is just that—a burden be light and easy to carry?  Was Jesus speaking figuratively?  Did he mean that our loads of responsibility and trials would seem not so difficult and weighty on our hearts because we ask Him to help us?  Did He mean that when we would remember what He did for us—dying on the cross, accepting unjust punishment, taking the blame for what He didn’t do, listened to forgive those who mocked Him—our present circumstances would pale in comparison?  When I tried to find cross references for these verses, it appeared that this statement is recorded only in Matthew.  The closest similarity was found in John 7:37 and 38 where Jesus says, 

"If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink.  He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly will (shall) flow rivers of living water.”  

John 4:14 that was stated before helps to further explain this: 

“But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life.”   

In this verse, Jesus did not mean that we would never be physically thirsty, but that we would be satisfied—our spirit would be satisfied and completed by the help of the Holy Spirit.  Jesus would be all we really need.  Perhaps comparing this to the yoke and burden passage will help reveal the meaning.  We know Jesus did not mean we would no longer have to physically carry heavy burdens—because that is a part of life and living.  What he could mean is our spirit-internally we wouldn’t have to be plagued by worry and grief about overwhelming responsibilities and challenges.  Jesus wanted us to realize that He wants to help us carry these loads, He wants us to share them with Him so He can take care of the brunt of the load.  Part of the definition for yoke in the Concordance also said to balance.  This would again imply: Jesus taking off some of the pressure from the burden we have.

   The Illustrated Dictionary of the Bible brings out another meaning.  It said, “In New Testament times the phrase, take the yoke of, was used by Jewish rabbis to mean, ‘Become the pupil of a certain teacher’.  In this case, Jesus also may have been encouraging His followers to learn from Him-the gentle, wise teacher of useful advice/commands. 

    I will end this study with verses that I started with, but this time it will be copied from the Amplified Bible.

    “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden and overburdened, and I will cause you to rest.  (I will ease and relieve and refresh your souls.)  Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me, for I am gentle (meek) and humble (lowly) in heart, and you will find rest (relief and ease and refreshment and recreation and blessed quite) for your souls.  For My yoke is wholesome (useful, good-not harsh, hard, sharp, or pressing, but comfortable, gracious, and pleasant) and My burden is light and easy to be borne.”  
 Matthew 11:28-30

If these verses are referring to Jesus as our teacher and us as students, Jesus is a great teacher who doesn’t give out assignments that are impossible to finish, nor is He arrogant, but listens to us.

Also, the reason we are overburdened, is because we are not yoked to Christ or trying to pull ahead of Him rather than with Him.  If we share the load rather than trying to do it all on our own, the load is easier to handle because we’re letting Jesus help us.

A Special Little Boy and His Attentive Horse

Yes, I do have Down Syndrome, 

that may be,

but that difference to some

my horse doesn't see.

Compared to those my age
I look quite small
but on my horse's back
I look quite tall.

I can make my horse go 
I can make him stop
I like to ride him fast
and then go slow.

Some cannot understand
the words I say,
but my horse doesn't mind
he listens anyway.

When I see him standing 
by the gate
it means he knows 
his hay is late.

I don't know that,
so instead
I walk up to him
and give a pat.

Wally is my sister's horse,
but I like to think he's mine,
of course. 

Hey, Mom..Dad...I want to take a trip to Kentucky!

You what?!

Yes, that was basically what one of my parent's response was.  Recently I found out about a place called Higher Ground Ministry.  It's a place in Kentucky that was started by a girl named Brystol who wanted to minister to people with horses.  For those of you who read my blog, you may have noticed by now how I like to compare horse things to spiritual things.  Have a flash back with me as we go back to 2012 for my High School Graduation.  I had done a riding/training demonstration with my horse and explained how the horse's relationship with the trainer is like our relationship with God.  The horse must choose to submit itself to the trainer in order for the trainer to accomplish amazing things with it; just as we must submit ourselves to God in order for Him to accomplish His amazing plan for us.

That was so much fun!  As I look back, I see how little I really knew then, and how much I have learned since.  Anyway I am praying about volunteering at least one week sometime this year or next year at Higher Ground Ministries in Kentucky .  I am really excited that there is someone else out there that has a life that is only a dream at the moment for me.  To be able to help out with a ministry like this and learn all it takes to do something like that would be such an amazing opportunity!  I will post more as details unfold.

Change Your Horse (and yourself)...One Step at a Time

      The biggest breakthrough in the riding and training of my horses came from three simple words: control its feet.  The first time it exasperated me.  How could I control my horse's feet when they were constantly moving and I couldn't see where they were from the saddle?  

      It started with correcting my horse for a step forward by moving it back into position.  Then putting a foot back into position when a foot stepped left or right.  Then I started to tell my horse how many steps a foot was allowed to take.  The more I put more thought in this, the more confused and frustrated I became because it took a lot of work and focus.  As I stuck with it, I learned to push aside my fears of doing something wrong, and embrace the opportunity to try.  Once I began seeing changes in my horse's behavior, it was then I began to see how valuable this advice was.  For example if I stopped giving my horse's feet direction, they would stop.  If I corrected a foot  for moving more than what I had asked it to, the horse began to slow down, hesitating to think about my cue before moving.  Granted this didn't happen immediately, but it did as I stayed consistent.  For my athletic and energized pony, the more control I had over her feet the more calm and attentive she became.   For my lazy and easy going horse, the more control I had over his feet the more athletic and respectful he became.  Getting control of my horse's feet and understanding  how the position of their feet affected my horse's movement has enabled me to keep my horse's attention and prevent myself from getting out of balance with my horse.  Eventually this understanding will enable me to do more difficult and advanced maneuvers such as spins and lead changes.      

     This one step at time concept has also applied to making changes in my own life.  As I continue to study God's Word, accept instruction from other wise mature Christians, and desire to live a life that reflects Christ, I see so many areas in which I fall short of God's standards.  Rather than getting discouraged and choosing not to try changing, I can take small steps in the right direction.  For example, choosing to speak with a pleasant, friendly voice when I would rather just be silent because I'm finding it hard to love that person or choosing not to complain or get sullen when a parent is not in favor of my idea.   Instead of getting all anxious and upset about the so many things that I'm not getting done or  want to learn, I am learning to stop and ask Jesus to help me focus on the steps I need to take to get an overwhelming or unpleasant task accomplished.  I am learning that great things are done, one step at a time.

 

"A man's heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps."---Proverbs 16:9

 

"Direct my steps by Your word, and let no iniquity have dominion over me."--Psalm 119:133

 

"The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way."

--Psalm 37:23

"Does He not see my ways, and count all my steps?"--Job 31:4

For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps:  Who committed no sin, nor was deceit found in His mouth, who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously; who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness--by whose stripes you were healed.

1 Peter 2:21-24

Here are the words to a song that continues to be an encouragement to me as I grow up.

Little by Little

by Ron Hamilton

When mountains tower rugged and high,

rise to the challenge look to the sky.

Trust in the Lord and start out to climb;

reach for the goal one step at a time!

Growing in Christ takes work every day;

reading your Bible learning to pray.

Build godly habits, seek help divine;

great things are done one step at a time! 

Chorus:

Little by little inch by inch

By the yard it's hard,

by the inch what a cinch.

Never stair up the stairs;

just step up the steps.

Little by little inch by inch

"It's a cinch!"

 "For precept must be upon precept, precept upon precept, line upon line, line upon line, here a little there a little."   Isaiah 28:10

Reflections

Recently I was looking over this poem I had written several years ago when reading through the book of James.  My inspiration for this poem came from chapter 1 verses 22-25.  Let's take a moment to review this challenging passage of scripture.

"But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.  For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass:  For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was.  But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.

James 1:22-25 

The word of God is like a mirror.  It reveals the imperfections in our lives and hidden secrets of our hearts, convicting us of what we have done wrong, and challenging us to do what is right.  Will we change or will we continue on in our selfish ways?  On Sunday, our pastor's message was about judging others.  Often we get so caught up in the problem that someone else has that we are blind to a similar problem in our own lives.  We need to change ourselves before we can change others.

This reminds me of a conversation about horses I had with a friend the other day.   I concluded that we need to change ourselves before we change our horses.  Many of the problems I have with my horses are because of me.  By allowing my horse to do an undesirable behavior, I'm teaching my horse to continue doing the wrong thing.  If I teach my horse how I expect it to behave, the undesirable behavior will disappear.  For example when I was young and naive in my horsemanship skills, my horses had the problem of sneaking out the gate when I would open it.  In reality, I had the problem of letting my horses stand too close to the gate when I opened it.  Once I got in the habit of chasing the horses away from the open gateway when I entered and exited, they began to walk away from the gate when it was opened.  My horses have had the problem of getting nervous when I ride them out in the pasture while being comfortable at home.  The real problem is I feel comfortable at home and nervous out in the pasture.  I also have the problem of riding them casually around the yard and making them work out in the pasture when they acted up.  As I learn to be comfortable and controlled by challenging myself to ride my horses in various locations and making work and casual riding something I do equally wherever I ride, my horse's problems are continuing to diminish.  This mindset has helped me to view problems differently.  It's helped me to look at challenges as "what can I do differently?" rather than "what can they do differently?"  Horses are a mirror of ourselves.  If we're nervous, inconsistent, and insecure, our horses may exhibit those characteristics as well.  

My challenge for those with horses: Get out there and start changing your problems with horses, one step at a time! 

My challenge for all of us:  Desire to be more like Christ.  Ask Jesus to help you be more like Him.  

Now, Go!  Find the Godly character traits you are lacking, be constantly aware of them, and start changing your behavior!  If you're struggling to change, ask someone to remind you.  

I want to be humble here and share some of the challenges I'm seeking to change in my life.  I ask those of you reading this to hold me be accountable for these areas in my life.  Feel free to write me and ask me what steps I am taking to change.

Pray that I would:

Be orderly with my time and activities.

Be consistent in what I say and do--mean what I say and do what I say I will do.

Not become bitter about other people's problems.

Be diligent in praying daily.